Unfortunately, a few responses won’t be good enough to get a date. Even the most unappealing women online have desperate guys after them.
Imagine how many messages – per day – an attractive woman gets. I have a friend that told me she receives at least 15 everyday on both of the singles sites she uses. So you have to realize that you’re dealing with some serious competition here.
This mentality is exactly what prevents some men from meeting anyone online. Writing a first email to a woman online is important because it’s the main tool used to get a foot in the door, so to speak. Even if you send out hundreds of emails, you’ll probably only get a few responses.
The introduction should be similar to the subject line.
Even better, if you are creative enough to connect the introduction and the subject line, you’ll really hook her.
When you exit the room, there probably won’t be a single person you distinctly remember.
Now, let’s say there was a giant purple cow in the middle of that room.
Just about every online dating site out there has some variation on this. Too many people spend too much time focusing on one particular girl at a time, developing an online version of one-itis.