Next time, I’ll be sharing how my misunderstanding of this passage almost derailed me and Morris’ relationship.
Because I was a spirit-filled non-denominational and he is a Bible-toting Baptist.
My husband is a kind and generous man who I admire and love deeply. In the moment, when tensions and emotions are running high, and frustration threatens to undo us, the temptation to split feels enticing.
He is absolutely “respected at the city gate” (Proverbs , NIV). What stops us from making our lives easier (albeit temporarily) by parting ways? Divorcing my husband, apart from the pain it would cause us and our family, would only serve to remove the largest indicator and brightest illuminator of my principal sin: pride. The removal of challenge removes the opportunity for growth. Stagnation in our walk keeps us from Christ and everything he still has for us in this life, including in our marriages.
Or I should just “eat, pray, and love” my way to happiness by pursuing endeavors that would help me find myself. He is a fellow believer, who came to Christ in 1997 right alongside me, entering into the covenant of grace, which binds us together even more than our covenant of marriage.
She and her husband, Steve, have three grown children and five grandchildren. People who don’t have that figured out don’t last 31 years. Still, we remain steadfast in our resolve not to divorce.I believe in the God who saved me while I was still a sinner (Romans 5:8). Last summer I typed out the words of 1 Corinthians 13, and I keep them in a frame above my desk.When I am tempted to keep a record of wrongs (see verse 5), I go to these framed words.Christ has told me in John to love my husband as Christ has loved me.And in Luke , he instructs me to treat others, especially my husband, as I would want to be treated.I pray for God to remind me how much he loves my husband, and how much Christ suffered so that I could have a godly marriage.