The early scan stressed me out the first time because they can't pick up a hearbeat so early and I had an agonising wait for the next scan. Had sex with my pt the following weekend 2/11 and I found out I was pregnant a few weeks later.
Same as u tho I didn't know dates as I hadn't had a period so I done the clearblue one in the morning, on the 27th November which was also my birthday and it said 3 weeks so that all calculated back to the week after I miscarried and we first had sex.
You may feel more in control of your situation if you understand what happened before.
Try relaxation exercises Relaxation may help you to think calmly about your baby, and how you may feel when he arrives. Put into perspective any feelings of disloyalty you may sometimes have, and learn to love this baby.
He said it will not increase chances of miscarrying again.
He said if I'm gonna miscarry again there's nothing you can do about it, waiting won't make a difference.
However, if you tell your family and friends, they can be there to support you. It's natural to reflect on what might have been, but try to look forward to your future baby.
I found out at my 12 week scan in November from first pregnancy that baby's heart beat had stopped and there had been no growth from 8 weeks.
When you feel yourself worrying about the future, stop and think only about the moment you are in, and what's happening now.
Notice the sights, smells and sounds around you, and be aware of your thoughts and feelings.
As you reach each milestone, such as hearing your baby's heartbeat, or feeling your baby move, you'll be reassured that things are going well.
Here are some other ways to help you to stay positive: Take it one day at a time .
I spoke to my doctor and he said go for it if I felt ready as the only real reason for waiting is to date the pregnancy from last period.