You deserve a relationship that fills you up and helps you love yourself for who you are.You deserve a boyfriend who wants to spend time with you, who is eager to be with you!“He says he understands and that I need to give him time and we both need to weather the storm together. My friends and family say he isn’t prioritizing me or our relationship. ” Don’t let your boyfriend’s choices affect how you see yourself.It’s been five months of him almost never spending time with me, and I’m lonely and confused. If he’s choosing not to spend time with you, do not assume it means you are not lovable, valuable, or worthwhile.He had made so much money, and he kept saying he needs someone to talk to and to arrange his life.
Learning how to stop being a needy girlfriend is a double bonus: it makes you happy and fulfilled, which makes you more attractive to men. My instincts were right – he said he guessed things weren’t working then (all by texts/emails, not even phone calls) and we should be friends. 2) He’s making no effort to see you, commit to you, or grow your relationship. After communication seemed like work I simply said he didn’t seem interested. But it still seemed like work on my part and I would be upset when he didn’t communicate so I said his lack of communication made me feel like I didn’t matter to him.So your boyfriend will WANT to spend time with you because you are healthy, happy, and whole.Here’s the rest of my reader’s comment: “He’s my first boyfriend, and we got back together after 12 years apart,” says D. We ran into each other eight months ago and were excited to get back together. Paulina thought for a second and said, “He’s simple. And he does call or text me multiple times a day.” o Tell me what she loses if she cuts Matthew out of her life immediately. It doesn’t matter if there was attraction and flirtation three months ago; right now, Paulina is Matthew’s emotional booty call.