Depending on who it’s coming from, this can be flattering or very insulting (especially the friends who urge you to compromise).
But remember this: It’s only human for people to want to feel validated in their own life decisions by seeing you reflect them with your own.
How about we start off with that and let it be known. Although I’ve experienced great successes, i sure have some weak points. With women I have the shittiest timing this side of the Eiffel.
The search is a kind of journey, and along the way you tend to learn a few things about yourself, and about the society we live in. Everyone knows lots of fabulous single women in their 40s …but can’t think of any equally fabulous single men the same age.We waited a long time to focus on settling down, and now we’re facing a somewhat distressing fact of life: Once you’re over 40, there is a diminished pool of men to choose from.So we figured out – and accepted – that the right man does not magically appear when you’re ready for him.Either they were newly in a relationship, or just got out of one and were fed up.Have any of the guys reading this experienced the same? I asked a few ladies ( Shanel, Yasmiyn, Vanessa) about this very subject. So check it out and please feel free to add your three cents.Shanel- It’s at least a month before I start taking numbers again generally. It just depends on how over I am my previous situation. Shanel- First person that comes along once I’m ready and interested is who I’d talk to.